Frequently Asked Questions
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I conduct mediations by video conference or in person. We usually start with a joint session, where I will explain the process, and give each side a chance to tell their story. After that, we will usually break out into separate rooms, and I will spend time in each room with of you to get clarity on the outcome you want, and to create offers for the other party. These breakout sessions are confidential. I will move back and forth between the rooms until both parties reach an agreement, or it becomes clear that an agreement is not possible at this time.
If an agreement is reached, then either I will create a mediated settlement agreement, which will be a binding agreement on both parties.
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If appropriate, we can start with both parties in separate rooms, and not have you interact directly.
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In mediation, each side may or may not have an attorney. It is permitted, but not required.
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In the case of divorce or divorce modification, one party will still need to file court documents. In the case of other disputes where a court case has not yet been filed, it is not necessary to do so. The Mediated Settlement Agreement you will have at the end of the mediation is a legally binding document.
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Yes, mediation by video is as effective as in person. It can even reduce stress because each person can be in a more comfortable setting.
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If more time or information is needed, I am happy to meet with both parties again, or follow up as needed. If the mediation cannot be resolved, you still have the option of going to court.
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There is no minimum time requirement to book a mediation with me. However, most mediations will take 3-4 hours, and some can take a full day or longer. I will give you my best estimate of the time needed prior to the mediation, but there are no guarantees.